Why Trauma Memories Can Feel Like They're Happening Now
A trauma memory does not always feel like a memory.
Sometimes it feels like the event is happening again, right now. Your heart races, your body tenses, or a sound, smell or sensation suddenly takes you back to something you thought you had left behind.
This can be frightening. You may know logically that you are safe, while your body reacts as if danger is present. That does not mean you are losing your mind. It means your nervous system has not fully filed the experience away as something that is over.
What a flashback is
A flashback is a trauma response in which part of the past is triggered in the present. It can be visual, but it can also be emotional or physical. Some people see images. Others experience panic, dread, shame, anger, numbness or a strong feeling that something terrible is about to happen.
The reaction is real, even when the original danger is not happening now.
Why the brain does this
During an overwhelming experience, the brain prioritises survival rather than neat organisation. Sights, sounds, smells, body sensations and emotions can become linked to the event.
Later, an ordinary reminder may activate the same alarm system. The brain is not trying to punish you. It is trying to protect you using old information, responding to a reminder as if it were the original event.
What can help
Start by orienting yourself to the present. Say your name, the date and where you are. Look around and name five things you can see. Feel your feet on the floor and remind yourself: "This is a memory. It is not happening now."
You do not have to fight the feeling or force it away. Lower stimulation, breathe gently and give your body clear signs of present-day safety.
If flashbacks are frequent or affecting daily life, a trauma-informed therapist can help you understand your triggers and process what happened at a manageable pace.
Getting support
I am Simon Jones, a trauma-informed psychotherapist working from Ebbw Vale, South Wales, and online across the UK. I work with trauma, PTSD, anxiety and depression.
Your first appointment is a 45-minute consultation, £70, in person or online.
The past may still affect your nervous system, but that does not mean you are trapped there.
Author
Simon Jones is a PTSD therapist specialising in trauma recovery and nervous system healing.
Consultations available online and in person in:
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